When you train your brain to be biased towards seeing a particular outcome that will become your reality.
Therefore, the first step is to begin retraining the brain to see something different.
To find the man who’s going to share your life and stay with you through thick and thin, he needs to be more than a good date!
The truth is that you need to see his character and behavior to know if he’ll be a good partner for you. Remember, there really is no such thing as perfect, ladies. “Women can expend so much energy trying to twist like a pretzel to fit what we think men want us to be.
Now you're probably a lot wiser about men (thanks to your marriage), you may have children that restrict your free time, and the club-scene may not be quite as inviting as when you were younger.
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It takes some skill to do this, but it will be worth learning.
I teach this to all my coaching clients, and it instantly makes a difference in the quality of their dates.2. Help him get to know you and why you're a good match. Drop into the conversation that you are learning how to swing dance, are volunteering at the local animal shelter, went to Tahiti, etc. If you don't think you have interesting and intriguing things to share, I promise you do.